–He’s telling you that you will be talking about your relationship
“and I feel like
–He wants to be heard first
“we should take a break.
–he pauses, then inspects your reaction. (deep breath optional)
“Things have been very hard for me
–you are thinking why he never talked to you about it
“and I don’t want them to be harder in the near future.
–he needs something convenient
“I don’t want you to be hurt more in the process
–he sounds as if he cares. Then you wait for his next phrase.
“that’s why I’m telling this to you now.
–he sounds as if he is ACTUALLY doing you a favor.
“but don’t think that it’s your fault
–he assumes that you blame yourself but really, you are still in the process of digesting things
“it is mine actually
–he takes the blame for it. He expects you to say it’s not his fault
“I feel that I need space
–he doesn’t need you anymore
“in order to understand myself
–really now. Is this the first time?
“to find reasons in the things I do.
–he acts pitiful. He wants you to pity him.
“I don’t know why I’m feeling this way
–*blank stares* he is thinking of what to say next
“I loved you, I’m sure.
–he wants to reassure you that everything was real and reasonable
“but I can’t keep you waiting
–he reinforces that it is reasonable by assuming that waiting is such a bad thing to occur to anyone
“I don’t want to deny you of your freedom
–again, he makes it look as if he’s doing you a favor
“because I still care for you.
–he wants you to feel better to feel better about himself.
Wrote this back in 2008. Watchasay, people? 😀